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Shame and Addictions


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Shame is at the root of all addictions.

Understanding, reducing, and transforming shame is the key to freeing someone from addiction. Denial is one of four major reactions to shame. When an addict’s denial can be pierced and properly worked with, the shame that the addiction is attempting to cover can be gently healed. In addition to the shame and sense of isolation that leads to addiction, there is additional shame that arises about being an addict. This shame on top of shame is a reason for frequent relapses in people’s recovery. 

Awareness and attention to the primary and secondary shame is crucial to long-term recovery because while shame starts addiction, shame also keeps the crutch of addiction going. Working with addictions can be challenging because, while the client may seek to heal, letting go of the addiction is a huge, terrifying unknown.

In this workshop, you will learn how work very carefully and directly, with compassion and psycho-education, to counter the shame that has been causing and maintains the addiction. You will learn how to become a true support to the part of the client that wants to heal and help them find new paths, while also gently challenging the unhelpful behavior. We will model how to work with addiction from substances - food, alcohol, drugs - and/or sex, work, gaming, and exercise addictions. As demonstrated in the famous “rat park” experiment, addiction comes from a paucity of pleasurable, nurturing behaviors and experiences. You will learn to help clients broaden their experience and find and seek out resources - people, places and other sources of pleasure, ease and belonging that can sustain them.

2 Friday & SATURDAY Half-Days: April 14, 15, 21, 22, 2023

10AM–1:30 PM Pacific Time

ONLINE

Live and recorded, using Zoom

13 CE credits for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs in California and RDTs in the US.
(See CE information below.)
CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

This course is for therapists and helping professionals. If you're not sure if it's the right class for you, please contact Bret Lyon at Bret@HealingShame.com. This workshop can be applied toward certification as a Healing Shame Practitioner


Pricing and Registration

$395 full price
$375 with early bird discount, paid in full by March 10
(Use coupon code EARLYBIRD)
Special rate for interns - $70 off full price (Use coupon code INTERN)

$40 fee for CE credits - available for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs in California + RDTs
If you would like CE credits for this workshop, please pay for them now, at the same time you register for the workshop. Payment for CE credits is separate from your registration payment.
To pay for CE credits, please click here.

We offer two payment options for registration:

1. If you want the early bird pricing, pay $375 by the early bird deadline. (Sorry, no deposits for early bird pricing.)

2. Pay the full amount of $395 or a $100 deposit to hold your space in the class. Upon registration, you will receive an email confirmation that includes a link to pay any balance due. Please note that we do not send a balance due bill, so it will be your responsibility to remember to pay. Any balance due must be paid in full at least 4 days before the class.

**If registering within one week of the class, you must pay the full amount; deposits will not be accepted.**

Please note: In registering for this workshop, you are agreeing to the terms of our Ethics and Scope of Practice Agreement


CE Credit

The Center for Healing Shame is approved by the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists to sponsor continuing education for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs in California – CAMFT-approved CE provider #134393. Courses meet the qualifications for hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences. 

At this time, we are only able to provide CE credit to LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and LEPs in California. We are not able to offer CE credit to psychologists or nurses in California or to psychologists, therapists, or nurses licensed outside of California in the U.S. and Canada.

For complete information about CE credit, Hours of Attendance certificates, and course credit, please visit our information page.

The Center for Healing Shame maintains responsibility for this program/course and its content.

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This is a workshop for therapists and other helping professionals, taught by Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP. and Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT.

Bret Lyon and Sheila Rubin have co-led workshops on Healing Shame for over a decade in many cities in the U.S. and Canada, including Berkeley, New York, Montreal, Ottawa and Victoria, BC. Both have trained in EFT with Sue Johnson and in AEDP with Diana Fosha. For more information, please visit our page About Us.


WORKSHOP CANCELLATION POLICY

We do not offer refunds. The amount paid can be applied toward a future workshop within 12 months. Registrations are not transferable.


ACCOMMODATIONS FOR THE DIFFERENTLY ABLED

The Center for Healing Shame welcomes people who have disabilities. Our training location is wheelchair accessible. Please contact us to discuss your specific needs.

GRIEVANCE POLICY

The Center for Healing Shame seeks to ensure equitable treatment of every person and to make every attempt to resolve grievances in a fair manner.

If you have a grievance, please include your name and contact information and submit it in writing to Sheila Rubin (sheila@healingshame.com).

Grievances will receive, to the best of our ability, corrective action in order to prevent further problems.